Cat Naps, Coastal Dreams & Northern Realities: A Tale of Two Towns (and One Very Tired Man).
Do Not Disturb (Unless You're Daisy): On Finding Peace with a Feline and the Perpetual Pursuit of Proper Shut-Eye.
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The Nap-uccino Diaries: From Kitty Cuddles to Coastal Crushes
Subtitles:
Part 1: The Sleepy & the Snuggly: How a Cat, a Cuppa, and Chronic Tiredness Define My Mornings (and Evenings).
Part 2: From Wigan Wonders to West Kirby Whims: My Delusional Dawn Encounters and the Search for a Dream Home (That Isn't a Mortgage Nightmare).
After four nights back in the Northwest, I think I may well have caught up on much-needed sleep now, even though Daisy came and joined me. She was as good as gold, naturally sensing I was pretty much on my last legs. She lay down, snuggling into me as I dozed off, and stayed there until this morning. I seem to have a natural affinity with cats—more so than with most humans—and Daisy seems to share my independence, that welcome, genuine affection, and a warm, comfortable bed. So, we're ideal company for each other.
As usual, my morning pit stop, wherever I am, is to hit the nearest halfway-decent cafe for a hot chocolate. I take the time to fully awaken while soaking up the hustle and bustle of the surrounding environment, checking emails, and, more specifically, getting my head around ideas for the day's blog. I rarely engage in conversation so early in the day, or at least not until I've sunk my hot chocolate, as being completely antisocial comes quite naturally until then. Anyway, some random guy did attempt to engage with me, and I assumed him to be a transvestite after he declared he had a Wigan address. A total misunderstanding, given I was still recovering from slumberland, and, as it transpires, I still am, some seven hours later.
Yes, it's now early evening, and I'm pretty much all ready for bed. This is now my life: constantly tired, with breaks of liveliness in between, thanks to something called 'Mesenteric Angina.' This, among other things, is slowly causing me to fall apart at the seams and contributing towards the hole in the ground, final destination. Or perhaps not the hole in the ground. Given I've probably smoked my way through the best part of a tobacco plantation over the years, the job could be completed by burning me from the outside as well, in a nice, hot oven, and job done. You see, I don't really give a brass razoo what happens to me when I'm dead, as I'm hardly likely to get back up and complain, am I? Trust me, it's enough of a miracle I'm still alive!
But anyway. Before I drift back into the arms of Morpheus again, I’d like to tell you about a beautiful little place I visited yesterday, on the Wirral. It was purely by chance that I found myself only a short drive away while on a trip with Simon, and it’s called West Kirby.
The Great Relocation Debate: Why West Kirby is a Dream (and Why Ramsbottom Might Be My Reality).
You know that moment when you visit a place and think, "Yep, this is it. My future postcode"? I had one of those recently. Actually, I've had two. And they couldn't be more different. So, let's talk about the glorious, the charming, and the utterly aspirational West Kirby, then weigh it against its northern counterpart in the "potential new home" stakes: Ramsbottom, Lancashire. This, dear reader, is a tale of two towns, a single bloke, and some rather eye-watering property prices.
West Kirby: Where the Dogs Have Better Posture Than I Do.
First up, West Kirby. Honestly, it's gorgeous. Perched right on the edge of the Wirral, every view is a postcard just showing off – from the Welsh hills shimmering in the distance to the iconic Hilbre Island just begging for a walk (tide permitting, obviously; nobody wants to explain that rescue to their mates). The Marine Lake is the true heart of the place. It's huge, calm, and perpetually busy with people doing very elegant things like sailing and paddleboarding. It's like a perpetual water ballet, and the promenade alongside it is perfect for a strut, or just watching the world go by, probably with a ridiculously well-behaved retriever.
The vibe here is just nice. The high street is packed with charming independent shops – none of your usual identikit chains, which is a breath of fresh air. And the cafes? Oh, the cafes are next-level. You could spend a whole day just hopping from one to another, fuelled by artisan coffee and cakes that look almost too pretty to eat (but you will, obviously). It's got that lovely community feel too; everyone seems pretty chuffed to be there, and there's a gentle hum of polite activity rather than, you know, outright chaos.
My immediate thought after about ten minutes was, "Yep, I'm buying a place here. Forget that other idea, this is it!" Then, I made the fatal mistake of checking the property listings. A five-bedroom house for £4.5 million? Delightful, but far too many bedrooms for a single bloke like me – and slightly out of budget, unless I suddenly discover I'm distantly related to minor European royalty. Okay, so perhaps a three-bed flat, just for good measure? A mere £1,875,000. Still two bedrooms too many, and a price tag that made my eyes water. Then, finally, a more modest two-bed apartment for a cool £500,000. A mere snip, darling! Of course, there are less expensive ones, but it’s all about 'location, location, location,' don't you know! My dream of seaside living quickly transformed into a vision of me living in a very small, very expensive shoebox.
Ramsbottom: My More Realistic, Hearty Northern Fling.
And then we have Ramsbottom, in Lancashire. The other contender for my heart (and more importantly, my wallet, in a much less tear-inducing way). This is where the pragmatic side of me takes over.
Ramsbottom offers a completely different, yet equally appealing, flavour. While West Kirby whispers "understated elegance," Ramsbottom bellows "proper northern grit and good value!" Here, the air is thick with genuine Lancastrian character, the comforting aroma of chip shops, and the occasional blast of a steam train from the East Lancashire Railway – a proper, working railway, not just for show. You won't find immaculate promenades here; you'll find sturdy stone-built terraces clinging to hillsides and valleys that have seen a bit of life. The views are dramatic, sure, but less "serene sunset" and more "epic, windswept vista you earned by walking uphill."
The dining scene? Forget deconstructed anything. Here, it’s all about hearty portions, proper pies, and pubs that serve a pint with a side of lively banter. You absolutely do not need reservations (unless it's Sunday lunch in your favourite boozer). Activities involve hiking up incredibly steep hills, cheering on local football teams with fervent passion, and perfecting the art of a proper northern chat. It’s active, but in a "build up a sweat, earn your pint" kind of way.
And the property? Ah, the sweet relief! Here, my hypothetical £500,000 would probably get me something with an actual garden, a garage, and perhaps enough spare cash left over for, well, more than a single artisan coffee. You’re buying into the community, hills, and the satisfaction of knowing your mortgage isn't the GDP of a small nation.
The Hilarious Hardship of Choosing a Potential ‘Ideal’ Home.
So, what's a bloke to do?
West Kirby calls to the part of me that fancies strolling home from a boutique cafe, admiring the sunset over the Marine Lake, and perhaps investing in some really good binoculars for seal spotting. It’s the dream of a refined, breezy existence, where even the problems are probably quite chic. But that dream comes with a mortgage payment that suggests I should also be running a small hedge fund.
Ramsbottom, on the other hand, beckons with its unpretentious charm, honest beauty, and the comforting thought that I might actually be able to afford a decent gaff there. It’s the promise of real community, rugged outdoor pursuits, and a pie for dinner.
Ultimately, it comes down to whether I prefer my coastal charm with a side of eye-watering exclusivity, or my Pennine grit with a hearty laugh and a perfectly affordable home. For now, I'm still weighing up if I want to just visit West Kirby for the pretty pictures, and then head back to somewhere I can actually live. The quest for the perfect, affordable, and hilariously good postcode continues!