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Ryn Rose's avatar

Was that bloke who called in for real? Or was he a crisis actor? Because I'd like it if he wasn't that lame.

John Langley's avatar

Yes, for real.

Helen's avatar

The 'cannot' reminds me of Marshall Rosenberg's take on 'should' - the most violent word in the English language because it leaves z you with no choice. Exactly as you describe here, it removes personal agency.

Great piece.

John Langley's avatar

Good point, Helen. Thank you.

Helen's avatar

Well, it was your point - it just reminded me of this take on 'should'. :)

John Langley's avatar

Nonetheless, I appreciate the Rosenberg comment.